I sat there, eating a bowl of cereal and reading a book when
I ran across a conversation between two characters that made me stop and think
about what was said. The main character had told a subordinate about making
choices and how everything came down to what they chose. It made me think that
I had the option to sit in my rocker rather than at my desk, have cheese toast
instead of cereal for breakfast (or even dinner), and select that particular
book because it was a favorite of mine. I had made those decisions before I
read the discussion. After reading it, it suddenly made me think about how many
choices I have and make every minute of every day.
I have made some bad decisions in my life; most of us have,
I suppose. It's how I react to my choices that make a difference. Even my reactions
to those decisions result from how I feel about how I came to choose one thing
over another. If I decided on the wrong thing or path, I had the option to feel
bad about it, ignore it, or make a promise to choose differently next time.
Alternatively, I could learn from it and grow wiser, maybe not happy about how
things turned out, but at least somewhat pleased I had a guide on possible
other ways to handle something differently.
At my age, there are many things I have no control over,
like my aches and pains, the cost of living, and even the ability to keep
driving or give up that mode of transportation. Some aches and pains I can
choose to try to alleviate with various medications, while some others I simply
accept as a price of growing older. I can't control the cost of living, but I
can be grateful to have a roof over my head, food for me and my boys (the
cats), lights, running water, books, and knitting supplies to keep me busy. As
I get older, I find I really want less and less anyway. As for transportation,
donating my elderly vehicle to charity freed me from license fees, taxes,
insurance, and gasoline, thus giving me extra money for groceries, utilities,
and the like.
Then I started thinking about God and choices. God could
have made us to be like little robots, every one exactly the same, following
the same orders, doing what they were told without any recourse to selecting an
individual path or action. While many parts of our lives are controlled by
internal or external forces like our heart beating or being born somewhere in
the world where life is more demanding and living conditions harsher, we could
consider ourselves fortunate to be in a life and an environment where choices
abound. I have to thank God for that.
I think about how some people can choose to believe in God
while others either pass on the opportunity or never have a choice. I think I
even have the option of the kind of God to believe in. Some seem to want to put
God in a box and define God according to their wishes and thoughts. In
contrast, others choose to believe in a God of infinite patience, kindness,
justice, and mercy. The God I believe in lets me be me, faults and all, and
allows me to trust that God will be with me, no matter what. Even when my faith
is shaky, I still choose to believe in God; I have that choice.
Each day I make choices, including believing God loves me
enough to let me make good or bad choices. I can share what I believe or keep
silent about it. To testify to God's love and mercy, I don't have to mention
God in every sentence (or even paragraph or page). I don't have to carry a
Bible around with me all the time to impress people or identify myself as
Christian. How I choose to act in any given moment or situation takes care of that.
That is how I choose to demonstrate the impact of following Jesus's way of
living and loving in my life.
I'm glad I have choices. It's so much better than being a
puppet or a robot or stuck in a religious style that seeks to control my
thoughts and behaviors directly. It all goes back to the simple choice of
picking an apple or not.
Choice – what a concept, and what a gift.
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